100 questions to ask your partner 💯

What questions help you get to know your partner better?

1. 1. What do you daydream about when your mind wanders?
2. 2. What is a thought that keeps circling back to you lately?
3. 3. What do you tell yourself on the days you doubt yourself?
4. 4. What emotion do you hide the best, even from me?
5. 5. What do you rehearse in your head before a hard conversation?
6. 6. What is an object from your childhood you wish you still had?
7. 7. Which teacher shaped you in a way they never knew?
8. 8. What is a meal from your childhood that still tastes like home?
9. 9. What is a place from your childhood that does not exist anymore?
10. 10. Who is a relative you wish you had known better?
11. 11. What kind of weather do you secretly love getting stuck in?
12. 12. Which piece of clothing will you never let yourself throw away?
13. 13. What is your favorite way to be woken up?
14. 14. What is a small luxury you never feel guilty about?
15. 15. What would you study if grades and money did not matter at all?
16. 16. What is a talent you wish had been noticed sooner?
17. 17. What conversation do you still hope to have with someone someday?
18. 18. What is something you want to be brave enough to try this year?
19. 19. What is a tiny habit of yours that you do not even notice anymore?
20. 20. What tiny thing do you fidget with when you are nervous?

What are fun questions to ask your partner?

1. 21. What is the pettiest hill you will die on?
2. 22. What is a weirdly specific thing that instantly annoys you?
3. 23. What is the funniest lie you ever got away with as a kid?
4. 24. What terrible joke do you refuse to stop telling?
5. 25. What is your signature dance move?
6. 26. What sound effect would play every time you walk into a room?
7. 27. If our life was a TV show, what would it be called?
8. 28. If you had to teach a class on anything, what would it be?
9. 29. If you could time travel but only once, would you go to the past or the future?
10. 30. If you were a superhero, what would your terrible superpower be?
11. 31. If your life had a warning label, what would it say?
12. 32. What is the weirdest food combination you actually love?
13. 33. What food do you refuse to share, even with me?
14. 34. What is your order at our favorite restaurant, without even looking at the menu?
15. 35. Window seat or aisle seat, and why does it matter so much to you?
16. 36. What is the most overpacked you have ever been for a trip?
17. 37. What did you believe as a kid that you are almost sad is not true?
18. 38. What ridiculous thing do you still get excited about like a kid?
19. 39. What show shaped your sense of humor more than anything else?
20. 40. What silly thing are you weirdly sentimental about?

What questions should you ask about how you met?

1. 41. How would you tell the story of how we met to a total stranger?
2. 42. What is the first thing you remember thinking when you saw me?
3. 43. Who fell first, you or me?
4. 44. What do you think almost stopped us from ever getting together?
5. 45. What do you remember about the morning after our first date?
6. 46. Which early date do you wish we could redo exactly as it happened?
7. 47. What did you think our future looked like on the night we met?
8. 48. How did your friends react when they found out about us?
9. 49. What was different about me from everyone else you had dated?
10. 50. When did you feel our story stop being new and start feeling like home?
11. 51. What is a moment from our story that still makes you laugh?
12. 52. What is a small detail from how we met that you still think about?
13. 53. What is the boldest thing you did to get me to notice you?
14. 54. What is your favorite memory of us that I might not expect?
15. 55. What do we do better than any couple you know?
16. 56. What have I taught you without meaning to?
17. 57. If we could relive one day together, which one would you pick?
18. 58. What song sounds like us to you?
19. 59. What do you look forward to most in an ordinary week with me?
20. 60. What made you sure about me?

What are good love questions to ask your partner?

1. 61. What is the first thing you do when you want me to feel loved?
2. 62. Do you show love more with your words or with your hands?
3. 63. What do you do the moment you start missing me?
4. 64. Do you try to fix my bad mood or sit in it with me?
5. 65. How has the way you love me changed since the start?
6. 66. What is a way you love me that I might not even notice?
7. 67. How do you comfort me without using any words?
8. 68. What small habit of mine still makes you fall for me?
9. 69. Do you prefer grand gestures or quiet ones that only I would notice?
10. 70. What makes you feel most desired?
11. 71. What is a small thing I do that you find unexpectedly romantic?
12. 72. What small compliment from me do you replay in your head?
13. 73. If you could not use the word love, how would you describe what you feel for me?
14. 74. What is something you used to think was love but now know was not?
15. 75. What part of loving me comes easily to you and what part takes real effort?
16. 76. What is a rule about love that you actually live by?
17. 77. What does it mean to choose someone on a day you do not feel like it?
18. 78. What is the most unglamorous way you show love?
19. 79. How do you know the difference between being loved and being needed?
20. 80. What is the smallest gesture that convinces you someone truly cares?

What serious questions should couples talk about?

Spread these over a few nights. They are better slow.

1. 81. When you picture your life in ten years, what does an ordinary day look like?
2. 82. What is the next real milestone you want for us?
3. 83. What does a good life actually look like to you?
4. 84. What matters more to you, stability or spontaneity?
5. 85. Do you need a lot of alone time, or barely any?
6. 86. What value do you refuse to compromise on for anyone?
7. 87. Are you a saver or a spender at heart?
8. 88. How stressed do you get about money, honestly?
9. 89. Do you want kids, and how sure are you?
10. 90. What is a family pattern you are determined to break?
11. 91. How much influence should our families have over our decisions?
12. 92. What is our worst pattern when we disagree?
13. 93. Do you think we fight fair with each other?
14. 94. What makes you shut down instead of working through a fight?
15. 95. What is something we argue about that never actually gets solved?
16. 96. What is a resentment you think might still be sitting there?
17. 97. What is something you need from a partner that I have not given you?
18. 98. What is something about our future together that quietly scares you?
19. 99. How do you want us to handle our worst days?
20. 100. What does it mean to you that we are still choosing each other?