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couple habit tracker ๐Ÿ”ฅ

Pick the habits you want to build together, tick them off every day, and watch the streak you share grow. Works on one phone or two. Free, no signup, saved on your device.

by An Nayal, founder of Flamme ยท Updated

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how do you make shared habits stick?

Pick habits you both chose. A habit one partner sets for the other turns the tracker into a report card, and nobody keeps a report card going for long.

Keep them small enough to do on a bad day. "Walk around the block after dinner" survives a rainy Tuesday. "Run 5k together" does not.

Look at the week, not the day. A missed day is normal. Use the weekly view to see what is working, and change the habit if it keeps slipping, rather than blaming each other.

Want an app instead? We compared 9 habit tracker apps for couples with real prices, and our habit tracker guide has 20 habit ideas for two.

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Set it up on one phone and tap "invite" to send your partner a link. Their tracker opens with the same habits. After that, "send my ticks" sends a link with your last 14 days, and their phone adds your ticks to your column. Nothing goes through a server.

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