Gary Chapman 5 Love Languages: Matching Them with Flamme’s Types of Lovers
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Can you suggest a list of 30 engaging conversation starters to deepen connections with your girlfriend?
Answer from our relationship expert:
1) What's your earliest childhood memory? 2) If you could master any skill instantly, what would it be and why? 3) What's the most valuable life lesson you've learned so far? 4) If you could have dinner with any historical figure, who would it be and why? 5) What's a goal you have for the next five years? 6) If you could relive one day of your life, which would it be? 7) What's the most courageous thing you've ever done? 8) How do you think your younger self would view your life now? 9) What's a belief you held strongly in the past that has since changed? 10) If you could solve one global problem, what would it be and how? 11) What's your idea of perfect happiness? 12) What's a fear you've overcome or are working to overcome? 13) If you could travel anywhere in the world right now, where would you go? 14) What's a book that has significantly influenced your life? 15) If you could have any superpower, what would it be and how would you use it? 16) What's your favorite childhood game and why? 17) If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be? 18) What's the best piece of advice you've ever received? 19) If you could live in any time period, past or future, when would it be? 20) What's a talent or skill you have that most people don't know about? 21) If you could be an expert in any field, what would you choose? 22) What's a tradition from your family or culture that's important to you? 23) If you could have a conversation with your future self, what would you ask? 24) What's a small act of kindness you've witnessed that left a big impact? 25) If you could create a new holiday, what would it celebrate? 26) What's a personal goal you're currently working towards? 27) If you could instantly become fluent in any language, which would you choose? 28) What's a memory that always makes you smile? 29) If you could have a lifetime supply of one food, what would it be? 30) What's something you've always wanted to try but haven't yet?
"The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said." - Peter Drucker
Guidance & steps forward:
Choose a relaxed setting for these conversations. Listen actively and ask follow-up questions. Share your own thoughts and experiences too. Be open-minded and non-judgmental about her responses. Use these questions as springboards for deeper discussions, not as a rigid script.
References:
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